PROPER: Kindness, tact and consideration of others

The Victorian era is often associated with a strict and intricate set of social etiquette rules that govern nearly every aspect of daily life. Countless etiquette books were published to guide individuals through the complexities of proper behavior, and magazines frequently ran articles advising readers on how to conduct themselves in various social situations. From how to dress for different occasions and seasons to the correct way to address others in conversation, there seemed to be an unending list of expectations. However, at their core, these so-called "rules" of etiquette were primarily rooted in the fundamental principles of kindness, tact, and consideration for others.